The Urban Dictionary defines a badass as someone who does what she wants when she wants, where she wants. You won't find her on Facebook because she is probably out being cool somewhere. (Like Dragonboat Racing!!) She feels no obligation whatsoever to justify her beliefs, values, convictions, morals, etc., with anyone. She likes her music because it sounds cool to her. You won't find her if you look for her because there is no sure way to identify her. We are everywhere. One does not think that she is badass; she KNOWS it, and that's that.